my girl wont have sex with me Spicy

my girlfriend wont have sex with me and i feel like im getting subconsciously angry at her because of it. she will make out with me and purposefully do the things ive told her that turn me on and then will say she isnt ready for sex but she'll keep doing it. i feel like its unfair but i feel like i cant say anything about it because i wont want her to feel like im pushing her. ITS EATING ME ALIVE